Far from Home: Memories of World War II and Afterward by Mary Herring Wright
I wish I hadn’t waited so long to find this one, because I think I would have appreciated it more if her story had been a little fresher in my mind – there isn’t much backstory provided, and several names are given with no explanation of who they are. At one point I found myself flipping back through the entire book to see where someone was introduced (I never found it either. Was it in the first book? Did it get overlooked? Was I oblivious to it?)
The book is slow to start, with too much detail about some of her activities, but after her move to Washington D.C. work the pace picks up a bit. The writing is choppy throughout, and makes me wonder if her writing had gone downhill from when she wrote her first book, or with the first book, was I enjoying the general story so much that I ignored the weaker writing?
Despite these issues with the book, I’m still glad I read it – she is an amazing woman and I really liked learning about her experiences. It’s astonishing to me how much she was able to accomplish as a deaf woman in a hearing world, in addition to the challenges of living and working in the pre-integration South.
While I can’t recommend it as wholeheartedly as Sounds Like Home, it’s a good follow-up for those who have read her first book.
“She’s got no more business there than a pig has with a Bible.” That’s what her father said when Mary Herring announced that she would be moving to Washington, DC, in late1942. Recently graduated from the North Carolina School for Black Deaf and Blind Students, Mary had been invited to the nation’s capital by a cousin to see a specialist about her hearing loss. Though nothing could be done about her deafness, Mary quickly proved her father wrong by passing the civil service examination with high marks. Far from Home: Memories of World War II and Afterward, the second installment of her autobiography, describes her life from her move to Washington to the present.
Mary soon became a valued employee for the Navy, maintaining rosters for the many servicemen in war theaters worldwide. Her remarkable gift for detail depicts Washington in meticulous layers, a sleepy Southern town force-grown into a dynamic geopolitical hub. Life as a young woman amid the capital’s Black middle class could be warm and fun, filled with visits from family and friends, and trips home to Iron Mine for tearful, joyous reunions. But the reality of the times was never far off. On many an idyllic afternoon, she and her friends found somber peace in Arlington Cemetery, next to the grave of the sole Unknown Soldier at that time. During an evening spent at the U.S.O., one hearing woman asked how people like her could dance, and Mary answered, “With our feet.” She became a pen pal to several young servicemen, but did not want to know why some of them suddenly stopped writing.
Despite the close friends and good job that she had in Washington, the emotional toll caused Mary to return to her family home in Iron Mine, NC. There, she rejoined her family and resumed her country life. She married and raised four daughters, and recounts the joys and sorrows she experienced through the years, particularly the loss of her parents. Her blend of the gradual transformation of Southern rural life with momentous events such as Hurricane Hazel creates an extraordinary narrative history. The constant in Far from Home remains the steady confidence that Mary Herring Wright has in herself, making her new memoir a perfect companion to her first.
Title: Far from Home: Memories of World War II and Afterward
Author: Mary Herring Wright
Category: Nonfiction / Memoir
My Rating: 3 Stars
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